How to host intentionally this Summer
As an interior designer, I’ve always believed our homes are more than just walls and furniture—they’re the backdrop for our everyday life. They hold space for quiet mornings with coffee, impromptu neighborhood hangouts, family dinners, and backyard BBQs. The way a home is designed shapes the way we live in it, and that includes how we gather and host the people we love.
For me, hosting is simply an extension of good design—creating an environment that welcomes and supports. And whether you’re hosting a cozy brunch for a few friends or a full house for a summer soirée, you don’t need a sprawling estate or fancy decor to make people feel seen and cared for.
Let’s talk about hosting with intention this season—creating moments that feel easy, warm, and memorable. Think of it like engaging the six senses of hosting: the sights, sounds, scents, tastes, textures, and feelings that make an experience complete.
1. Sight: Set the Scene
What your guests see sets the tone. It could be as simple as bistro lights strung across the patio, a few fresh flowers in a vase, or a beautifully set table with a tablecloth and colorful napkins. A little intention goes a long way. Create focal points like thoughtfully layered tablescapes, a drink station, or a welcoming entryway with a place to drop bags. If you’re outside, think about what guests will look at while you’re chatting or grilling—plants, garden beds, backyard view, or a cozy seating area.
2. Sound: Keep it Comfortable
Whether it's a playlist humming in the background or the crackle of a fire table, subtle sound adds to the ambiance. Music should be audible but not overpowering. Keep it tailored to the vibe, something light and upbeat for a daytime BBQ, something softer and jazzy for an evening get-together.
3. Smell: Set the Mood
Smell is often overlooked but makes a big impact. Light a candle by the entryway or add fragrant flowers like lavender or garden roses to your table. If you’re grilling or cooking, let those smells speak for themselves. Scent makes a space feel lived in and loved—and your guests will notice.
4. Taste: Serve Simply and Thoughtfully
You don’t need a gourmet spread to impress. Think seasonal and self-serve: fresh fruit platters, grilled veggies, signature cocktails (or mocktails) with herbs from the garden. Decide early if it’s a seated meal or a casual buffet so you can plan accordingly. Whatever you choose, make it easy for guests to help themselves—clearly placed drinks, labeled dishes, and a few extra napkins go a long way.
5. Touch: Comfort is Key
Make sure what your guests interact with feels good—literally. Are the chairs comfy? Are there enough cushions or shade options outside? Do surfaces feel clean and inviting? Even small details like linen napkins or textured throws can elevate the sensory experience. Don’t forget to think about places like the powder room: a fresh hand towel, a candle, and a stocked soap bottle say, “I thought of you.”
6. Feel: Create a Welcoming Energy
At the heart of hosting is how people feel in your space. That’s something no furniture or playlist can fake—it comes from how intentional you are. Think about the gathering ahead of time: Who’s coming? What kind of energy do you want to create? Will it be lively and playful or slow and cozy? A little planning can help set the tone—from a casual evening of yard games to a more structured dinner with courses. The more prepared you are, the more relaxed your guests will feel.
Lastly, hosting isn’t about perfection. It’s about creating an atmosphere where people feel like they belong. No matter the size of your home, you can create moments that feel special. Make room for conversation. Make room for laughter. Make room for connection. And when in doubt? A simple snack, a clean bathroom, and a welcoming smile are all you really need. Here’s to a summer full of meaningful gatherings and spaces that support them—big or small.